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The Accidental Tourists in Little India

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Did you know that the ethnic quarters of Little India was not assigned to the Indian Community in Stamford Raffles’ town plan? It was only when Chinatown became overcrowded that Little India became populated with Indians. So the first Indians that came to Singapore resided in the areas of Chinatown, and not in Little India.

There were many other snippets of facts about the place that Pauline and I learnt along with our kids as we took our walking tour down the streets of Little India.

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While walking through the Tekka Market towards Buffalo and Kerbau Roads, we came across many goldsmith shops. Gold is symbolic to the Indian community, and is never worn on their feet or toes.

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Not considering to get any gold?Then how about these pretty glittery bangles for a couple of dollars?

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If your budget allows,  take your pick from the bright colors and luxurious fabrics to make a sari for yourself.

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Amid the rich colors of fabrics , pungent fragrances of spices, we spotted blooms of jasmine, roses, chrysanthemums strung together in flower garlands. These flower garlands have a traditional role in every Hindu festival, where the Indians will use to worship their Hindu gods.

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The kids were fascinated with the garish and intricate details on the buildings at the side of Sri Veeramakaliamman Temple, where they spotted images of the HIndu goddess Kali, with her many hands (who is known as the destroyer of evil in the Hindu religion) spearing her foes and a lion feasting on her enemy.

Sri Veeramakaliamman Temple is one of the oldest Hindu temples in Singapore built by Tamil laborers. Apparently the interior of the temple has various scenes of goddess Kali in vicious acts of punishments, so we figured looking at the details outside the temple was more than enough for the kids to take in.

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A trip to little India is not complete without a visit to Tekka Centre, which is located at the junction of Serangoon Road and Rochor Road. We had our lunch of local fare and got a set of Indian costumes for the kids to be decked up for their next Racial Harmony Day to be celebrated in their schools.

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And what was the other souvenir the kids got from Little India?

A temporary Henna tattoo!

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Henna is a paste made out of crushed leaves and twigs of henna plant, the paste is drawn on the skin by the henna artist, left on for about 10 minutes to dry and then washed off with hot water. What’s left on the skin is a orangey, dark maroon stain which fades away in about 1 week.

We got the henna art for the kids at about $5 each, a steal, considering how thrilled the kids were with their temporary tattoo.

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We completed our walkabout of Little India, including lunch and shopping at Tekka market in about 4 hours. If you are bored of the run of the mill play-gyms or shopping malls, Little India is  highly recommended for a cultural experience for kids above 4 years of age.

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A Walk down Singapore’s Five-foot Way

Chinatown holds many stories of the first chinese migrants who lived there.

Looking past the tourist kitsch and knick knacks from the Souvenier shops, therein lies a treasure trove of stories of old. Memories of a past Chinatown and her people who resided there, a time where Chinatown has been.

What will all of that mean to a preschooler?

An experiential tour of a place from the past provides the opportunity to learn about a time where modern sanitation, water supply and electricity did not exist. The time when the first immigrants to Singapore lived in dark, sordid cubicles, ate and slept on a wooden boards, which were their beds at night.

Where the common areas in their homes consisted of dark and dirty kitchens, shared by close to 70 people living in a shop house. Their toilets were holes in concrete and night soil were collected in buckets and was carried through the front door of their five-foot way shop-houses.

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A group of women with their trademark red headgear lived in this room. They wore black samfu, a tunic and trouser suit, together with an apron. These Samsui women worked hard daily at the construction sites carrying building materials in the baskets hung on a wooden pole, carried across their shoulders.

After work. they took home a few pieces of wood to use for their cooking and they ate simple meals with rice daily, followed with a cigarette of Chinese tobacco.

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The other group of women who lived in the same shophouse, 8 of them in a room, were Majie. Domestic servants that took the vow of celibacy and lived in the employers’ home. They returned to this room twice a month to read letters from their families and to catch up with their friends. Only one of them lived here, with an adopted daughter.

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The cubicle at the end of the hallway, lived a group of men known as coolies. These did back-breaking work daily and carried gunny sacks filled with spices and sugar near the Singapore River. Some others worked as rickshaw pullers, trishaw riders and farmers. When they retired to their cramped cubicles after a day of hard work, most sought relief in opium smoking.

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How about the occupants that lived in these other cubicles? What were their stories?

  • A carpenter and his family

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  • A hawker and his family

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  • A seamstress

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Traipsing down the steep steps of the shophouse, the children ventured to the ground floor of the shophouse which belong to the tailor’s quarters.

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  • The Tailor’s Quarters

He was more affluent that the rest of the occupants in the shophouse as he and his family members had their own rooms.

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The Tailor’s family had exclusive use of the kitchen on the ground floor and an air well to dry their clothes.

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  • The Tailor’s shop

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Intrigued by what you see in these photos? I am sure you have seen that there is more to the touristy kitsch that most of us experience on Chinatown. The children were totally intrigued by what they saw and were entranced by the stories we shared of the occupants that once lived in this shophouse.

Now’s a good time to visit Chinatown to experience the gaiety of the Chinese New Year festivities, so be sure to check out the heritage centre with your kids while u are there!

 

Chinatown Heritage Centre

48 Pagoda Street. Singapore 059207

Admission Charges

Adult  $10

Child (3-12yr) $6

 

 

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Parenting Success is Heart Work!

What does success look like to you as a parent?

Does your definition of successful parenting look anything like Amy Chua’s “Tiger Mom” approach? Her approach relies on a tight control of her child’s time and demand more from her child to ensure success (in her case, it meant academic and musical success). There have been plenty of write-ups criticizing her approach and there have been plenty of back and forth on the benefits of the relaxed or laissez-faire parenting, vs the Tiger Mom’s strict and demanding approach.

In our culture, most parents measure success a certain way, such as, in the hope that our children grow up to have a good job, nice comfortable house and have enough to enjoy family vacations annually.

So what does successful parenting looks like in my world?

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For sure, a child’s achievement is good to attain for a successful parent. Nonetheless, no matter how successful my child is in terms of academic achievement, sports, art or music, it will matter little, if as a parent, I fail to set his moral compass for life. I think good character is a best measure of my child’s success than all the other successes add together.

 

Character Development is Heart work!

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A child’s character doesn’t just happens when they become a teenager. I have heard from many parents (from my parents generation) that these things can wait till a child grows older. Character development can’t wait, as character traits are learnt from the experiences a child has in life and from observing people around them, especially their parents. So parents are the best model in shaping their child’s character.

To shape a child’s character, I believe it is important to get to the heart of the issue. To mold a character or address undesirable elements of character, I have to address the heart of my child.

I start at the beginning with God. I teach my child to to love God, who is his creator that made him, knows him inside out and loves him. His accountability to God becomes his internal compass on what is right and wrong. Even when no one knows or sees what he does, God sees it all.

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What are the character traits that I want to instill in my child?

  • Put Family First
  • Work hard and persevere
  • Manners
  • Courage
  • Loyalty and Dependability
  • Kindness and Compassion
  • Self Discipline
  • Self Control
  • Honesty and Honor
  • Trustworthiness

How to start character training? Start when you child can understand the consequences of their actions and focus on transforming your child’s heart. Work at developing a close bond with your child, as I am certain that constant encouragement will help to build your child’s character. Do try to spend less effort on punishing undesired behavior, and more time and effort on reinforcing desired behavior, something that I need to be reminded to do more of!

 

Need resources or help on Character Development? Here are some useful sites :

Character Notes

Character Training

Teaching Values

 

Christian Books on Character Development :

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God’s Wisdom for Little Boys : Character-Building Fun from Proverbs by Jim and Elizabeth George

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God’s Wisdom for Litle Girls : Virtues and Fun from Proverbs 31 by  Elizabeth George

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Child’s Book of Character Building: Growing Up in God’s World – At Home, at School, at Play Book 1 by Ron Coriell (I got my copy from SKS Bookstore)

 

So what does successful parenting look like for you as a parent?


Follow our series of blog hops on Character Development and look out for these posts lined up in these blogs :

12 Feb 2013 – Sarah of http://www.theplayfulparents.com/

19 Feb 2013 – Elisa of http://www.loveourchildrennow.sg/

26 Feb 2013 – Sharon of http://www.oaktreebaby.com/

5th Mar 2013 – Jean of http://jeanstitch.wordpress.com/

 

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