Category: Experiences

We are learning Art!

Most of us are used to the idea that we need to attend lessons to pick up a skill. Maybe it's in our culture or a mindset, that we can only learn from an expert or someone who is trained formally in that skill.

Ever since I became a full time mom, the mindset has changed and I have proven to myself that it is possible to pick up a skill without formalised lessons. I have taught myself cooking and sewing all through recipes and the sewing tutorials available from the internet.

This time, I am taking on another challenge. Teaching Kyle art, while also learning art at the same time. I took art for my O levels, but had very little interest in Still Art, which to me, was the dullest technique that I have learnt through through an art education. Maybe I am just bias towards classical art, or simply have little interest towards it.

It would have been a totally different story, if I read children art books from Laurence Anholt, Katie Series of books from James Mayhew; exploring artists from the Italian Renaissance to Post-Impressionism. Classic art appreciation did not quite happen for me until I became a young adult. Even till today, my preference for art strays far away from classical art, looking at my choice of art prints around the house.

To get our art journey started. I got a couple of children's books with the theme of encouraging creativity in art.

Top L-R  The Dot by Peter H. Reynolds, Ish by Peter H. Reynolds, The Art Lesson by Tomie dePaola, The Pencil by Allan Ahlberg, Not a Box by Antoinette Portis and Lines that Wriggle by Candace Whitman

 

Art is really all about the process and not the product. But it is hard to get a 4 year old to understand it. Kyle has been doing alot of open ended art with different mediums since turning 18 months old, but he has always been not too enthusiastic about the product he creates. So to help build his confidence and fan the interest towards arts, I went with a different strategy to get him to enourage his exploration of art.

He created these pieces with little encouragement needed and willingly sat through 2 full hours of drawing and colouring! It really amazes me how interest can encourage his attention span towards the activity.

The technique I used was to scaffold the learning, breaking up the shapes and the details of the picture step by step. This way, it makes it easy for him to follow and adapt his own preferences into the picture.

Since we have started on this method, he has been asking to draw every evening, and have asked to do more art activities. So I think it's time to re-introduce new open ended art experiences :) , before embarking on some classical art exposure. From there, with the exposure, it will help to develop his preferences for art in general.

 

As for my art experiences so far, my preferences lean towards illustration. I have been squeezing whatever time I can find to doodle and colour into my sketch book. Learning slowly from japanese doodle illustration books, a doodle at a time.

I want to a sportsman when I grow up

With a father that loves golf, and a granddad that enjoys tennis, it seems rather natural that an active and energetic child like Kyle will have a natural inclination towards sports.

I have toyed with the idea of sending him to speech and drama, since he is quite a drama king. And even art classes, as he has been asking for it. However, we have a limited enrichment budget and since I don't plan to over-schedule activities in a week for him, hb and I have decided on swimming and golf lessons. It seems quite common to send a child for formalised lessons as young as 2, but I have delayed lessons till this year, as I think that it is important that he shows interest, has the attention span and is able to follow instructions.

He enjoys swimming tremendously, and he is doing well in lessons with group instruction. He just had his first test from the swimming school, and despite the crowd of children having the tests the same day, he was game to go through it.

 

As for golf, we have justed started lessons last week and he is having loads of fun. He was able to tell me that his teacher taught him 'putting' and 'chipping' and even loudly exclaimed during his lessons to his coach, "Why I am only learning half swing?", when the rest of his other two classmates who joined earlier were doing full swings. No rush, my dear boy…one step at a time!

 

I have read this article that claims that it is too soon to think of sports for a 4 year old. I will agree with some of the points that the article mentioned, but I think physical and mental skills development required to learn a sport varies from child to child. Also since most sports require learning or playing in a group, the child needs to be ready to 'perform' in front of people. Looking at how outgoing and 'showy' Kyle can be at times, facing that pressure to 'perform' in a group/crowd does not seem to be a problem, in fact I always find that he needs to be reminded often to tone down his boisterousness.

Learning sports have been advantageous for us so far, as it has been effective to wear out his energy. Often he is like this 'energiser bunny' with the energy that never seems to tire out. On top of that, his appetite seems to have improved, and mealtimes are less of a chore :)

 

These days, he tells me that he wants to be a sportsman when he grows up, "To be a sportsman, I don't need to go to school and study right?"

Nice try, my little sporty guy.

Tasmania June/July 2011

Kate's Berry Farm on the way to Freycinet National Park, Tasmania East Coast

Our first stopover on our first day in Tasmania, about 2.5 hours drive from the Hobart International Airport. Broke our no desserts before meals rule when Kyle tasted delicious berries ice cream and some handmade chocolate at this farm. There were no fresh berries though, as it was out of season.

 

View of Cole's Bay from Freycinet Lodge Cafe.

This was where we had our first burger in Tasmania, that was accompanied with a breath-taking view of the bay. After the lunch with the forgottable burger, but addictive shoestrings fries and memorable view, we checked into our cabin at Freycinet Lodge. Initially, Nana's was not too impressed with her first look of the cabin from the outside…

But was presently surprised when she realised how cosy and warm it was on the inside!

 

The small harbour at Cole's Bay

 

Kyle saw his first rainbow on our drive back to Freycinet Lodge. Rainbows seem to be a common sight in the East Cost, as we saw double rainbows the next day near the coast.

 

Stretch of beach next to Freycinet Lodge with a breath-taking view of the sunset

 

Our 2.5 hour hike up one of the trails in Freycinet National Park

 

The little trooper was so game during our hike that he completed the whole journey of the trail, and only needed to be carried when the path got a little steep along the way.

 

The bay at Bicheno town, behind the Sea Life Centre. www.sealifecentre.com.au

The seafood here is fresh and the cooking is extremely competent. We were so pleased with what we tasted that we had both our lunch and dinner at this place.

 

East Coast Wildlife Park @ Bicheno

This wildlife park is recommended when you travel to Tasmania East Coast with kids. Kyle was so thrilled to pet and feed the free-ranging kangeroos which made the trip to the wildlife park all worthwhile. We almost had the whole park to ourselves, as there were only 2 other families in the 65 hectare park when we arrived at 3pm. It was a chilly late afternoon, temperatures went below 5 degrees and I had to put on my gloves as I was freezing my fingers off.

Kyle got to see his first Tasmania devil from this wildlife park. (See animal above top left). The creature might look cuddly and harmless but they are carnivores, they can easily crunch through kangeroo bones with their strong jaws and teeth. But they are only scavengers though, not hunters.

 

Japanese food and a gorgeous view of the sea from Kabuki by the Sea, Swansea Tasmania

Apart from the welcoming change of Japanese food. The owner of the inn had a pond of ducks, a miniature horse who had a ram for companion and gorgeous flowers in their compound.

 

A rocky bay right after Kabuki by the sea

 

I suspect Kyle will be quite happy to spend most of his time throwing rocks into the sea, if we spent more time in the East Coast.

 

Back to Hobart for 2 days before moving on to the West Coast.

Along Salamanca Square @ Hobart

The serviced apartments that we stayed for 2 nights, with room views of the Hobart pier, and with the best Fish and Chips in Tasmania . www.fishfrenzy.com.au

 

Historic Richmond Village Tasmania. Quaint little village town www.richmondvillage.com.au

 

Next leg of our Tasmania adventure, the West Coast.

Lake St. Claire, West Coast Tasmania

 

Cradle Mountain Lodge

The key highlights of the place definitely have to be the cold weather (pity Kyle did not get to experience snow), warm fireplaces (he was extremely thrilled to finally see a fireplace, and was super excited when he realised we had a fireplace in our room). And having to see wild wallabies, even touch a wild wombat (which I think we were not supposed to) and experience the nature walks around Cradle Mountain Lodge

www.cradlemountainlodge.com.au

The walks that we took at Cradle Mountain felt surreal and magical. The foliage, stream, waterfalls, accompanied by the cold cold weather looked like something out of an Enchanted Forest from an Enid Blyton story.

All ready for his walk!

The things that Kyle will certainly remember from our Cradle Mountain walks will be the waterfalls, from mini streams to a medium sized one with loud cascading sounds of falling water, to poo…lots of animal excrements along the trails that we took. Which proved the existence of plenty of Australian wildlife that lived in Cradle Mountain.

 

 

On the way from West Coast of Tasmania to Launceston, we stopped over at Devonport and took a short 30 minute trainride for the experience.

www.donriverrailway.com.au

 

Bruny Island stopover in our last day at Hobart

Tasmania is indeed the best that Australia can offer in terms of nature, seafood and friendly people. Kyle and I will definitely be back to visit beautiful Tasmania again if we do get another opportunity to, and the next time Daddy will surely have to come along with us…

 

Australia 2011 – What we ate

The thing about holidays is that food is often a big part of the whole experience. However since I have never been really much of a foodie to start with, I only took  photos of the food that gave me the strongest impression at specific moments. All other meal moments during the holiday, I was either too lazy to whip up the cam or the other meals were not much to look at or to remember.

Seafood Paella

The first home-cooked dinner that greeted us when we arrive at Nick's place

on our first evening in Sydney.

 

The first burger that Kyle and I had in Tasmania was in Fricynet Lodge (after a 3 hour drive). The best part about the dish was not so much about the burger but the shoe-string fries, which also came with a breathtaking view of Cole's Bay.

Beef Burger and Shoe String Fries @ Fricynet Lodge Cafe

www.freycinetlodge.com.au

 

The second time we had rice was on the way back to Hobart from the East Coast of Tasmania. It kind of eased Kyle's and my cravings for Japanese food, after having to eat fried seafood and fries during every other meal in our time at the East Coast.

Japanese at Kabuki by the Sea  www.kabukibythesea.com.au

Fresh Tasmania seafood Japanese lunch that came with a breathtaking view. Swansea, Tasmania

 

The best thing about Australia's food has to be the breakfast that we had in Tasmania. Since Kyle is a major pancake fan, we went with pancakes for the 2 breakfasts that we had in Hobart, Tasmania.

Buttermilk pancakes with maple syrup, topped with crispy bacon

Italian cafe at Salamanca

 

Berries Pancakes at another cafe Salamanca Square, Hobart Tasmania

Will be posting more of what we saw and did in Tasmania, once I am able to find some down-time to blog.

Kyle is 4!

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Janae doing colouring at the Dino activity table

 

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Some toys to keep Seth and Joyce busy while waiting for their other friends

 

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Wayne and Kyle waiting to get their Dino 'tattoos' on their arms

 

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Alex and Kyle listening to the game instructions for the Dinosaur Hunting Game

 

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Alex : Yeah! I found my first dinosaur counter…

 

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Wait..is that a dinosaur hiding under the plant?

 

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Tim : Oh that's not my team's dinosaur, it must be yours

 

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Dinosaur's cupcakes time!

 

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Blowing out the candles on the cupcakes

 

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Game 2 : Pin the tail on the dinosaur

 

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Natalie : I almost got it right!

 

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Game 3 : Linda, the sleeping dinosaur and her colourful eggs

 

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Hb doubled up as the Balloon Man

 

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Joy on Alex's face as she tries to grab hold of a balloon

 

Thanks to family and friends who were at Kyle's birthday party, we had a wonderful time…despite the craziness of having all 13 children in a room :) After this experience of planning the party and having an overload of printing and cutting dinosaurs' stuff, it will be a while before I think of having a party for Kyle in the subsequent years.

First-s

1 ) A ride on a bus to town, while standing all 30 minutes of the whole journey. K was surprisingly patient and did not complain about being tired at all.

2) Travelled on the MRT with mum, his first ride on the train was with dh. He concluded that he liked the MRT better than the LRT, as it is much cooler in the airconditioned cabin of the train. (The last ride we had on the LRT was not too pleasant as the aircondition system broke down).

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3) Visit to Bugis Junction. K has a very good memory when it comes to places that he has visited before, when we got to Bugis, his first remark was, "I have never been here before…"

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4) It's been raining so often these few weeks, that it has been hard to find a good evening to fly a kite. We finally got around doing it this evening at West Coast Park.

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5) Caught a glimpse of the sunset at West Coast

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and got a little distracted by a stick he picked up from the ground. He decided that the stick was more fun than the kite…

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An Art Experience

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Some time away

Away from home that is.

Blessed with free accomodation in 2 different hotels in 3 days, a first stay-cation for us. It was a thrill for K, who exclaimed many times during the first day at Resorts World about how he loved hotels and showed his appreciation "oohing and aah-ing" loudly when we checked in to the room for the first time.

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We explored Festive walk the first night, just K and I (dh was attending a gala dinner), was not too thrilled by the selection of food available and headed back to Vivo for Ramen and sushi.

Headed towards Imbiah Lookout the next morning to check out the sights…

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No thrills, no 3D shows, just beautiful nature for us nature lovers.

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Displaying cheeky little poses for the camera along the way

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A visit to the under-water world, always a part of our itinerary each time we are at Sentosa

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More fancy poses along the way. I still can't figure out where he gets his inspiration from…

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More 'waiting for the bus @ the bus stop' poses

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We ended the evening with 'Songs of the Sea' which K absolutely hated.

After whining 'I want to go now', we left early and

missed the best part of the show; the finale with the fireworks.

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Next morning, crazy queues for breakfast at Festive Walk so we hopped on the train back to Vivo for tea, pork floss toast and a game of 'Old Maid'

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Checked out at 12pm and headed to our next stay-cation at Park Regis at Merchant Road

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Pretty cool being the first to experience the rooms even before the hotel's grand opening…

Great place to stay for any business traveller.

And the people at Park Regis went that extra mile to prepare a room to ensure a comfortable stay for the 3 of us.

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Lunch @ Central at the restaurant with the view of Clarke Quay.

Savoured the best Ramen in Singapore.

We really love our Japanese food, K and I…dh is left with little choice since majority wins ;)

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The family had a great time at our first stay-cation, especially K.

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The only complain that I have is of a stiff neck.

Been forced to sleep in strange positions on the hotel beds,

since K insisted on clinging to my arm for all three nights while sleeping…

The Ant

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The Black Ant

I have been looking forward to this since the start of the week; K's first school performance! Prior to this evening, K only divulged that he will be dressing up as a black ant, then refused to show me his dance, but told me that he will be performing a dance to the tune of "Nobody". It was also the first time I saw him dressed up in his ant costume.

Dh and I did not get good seats in the hall, so this shaky and blurred video was my best attempt to capture scenes of his performance :( K is the 1st black ant on the left of the stage.

The Ants with Hi Ho and Nobody from Rachel T on Vimeo.

 

I did managed to squeeze myself to the side of the aisle during the finale and got better footage. K is the second ant from the right.

Finale : I can fly from Rachel T on Vimeo.

Spirituality

Spirituality has always been a big part of my life. For me, it is not a religion but a relationship; a relationship with my Creator, thankfulness in a Saviour who has redeemed me from the abyss of hopelessness + sin and the full assurance and joy that the promises of my future that are given in me through my belief in Christ.

God has been very real in my life and Christianity for me explains more about my life and the world than any other system of belief I’ve encountered, so naturally, I will want to share this hope for our lives with my child. We talk about the wonders of creation, how good God is to us, how we should love friends and other people around us even when they are not lovable.  For a 3 year old, he is confident that God is real, when our prayers for good weather are answered 100% of the time, whenever the activities for the day are planned for outdoors.

One morning, dh told me that K said this to him when he woke up, "Daddy, I had a dream, I dream of Jesus. I love Him and I believe in Him!"

Dh thought it was really cute, while the hairs of my arms and back of the neck started to stand when I heard that from dh. I started bombarding K with a barrage of questions,

Mom  :   "What does Jesus look like?" 

Kyle   :   "He is handsome, with a beard."

Mom  :   "Did he say anything to you."

Kyle   :   "No, he smiled at me and I know He is Jesus and I know He wants me to sleep well, because Jesus also likes to sleep!"

For skeptics, this may sound like a 3 year old dream. For me, it sounded that K has his first spiritual encounter and I was deeply touched that our Saviour answered my prayer for my child to know Him more.

The next evening, K randomly told me this, "I know God wants Uncle Nick to believe in Him."

I am beginning to suspect that my little one has his own direct line to God, something which I may not be even privy to…in fact, I have yet to dream about Jesus in my whole 30+ years of life, despite asking every once in a blue moon in my prayers for Him to speak to me in my dreams :)

Despite that I don't need to see to know that God is real and Christianity is demonstrably true, as He has proven Himself countless times that He is a true God and can be fully depended on with my life.

Do you ever wonder why Christians tend to be rather irritating and are always asking people to believe in their God, or maybe you think we are a group of silly people who couldn’t deal with reality? Do you have the courage to find out if the God that Christians talk about is really true? Ask Him and you will surprise how He will show it to you.

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